Is there anyone you love to rejoin? Do you really need it?
There are times I feel that it is so much better to cut off certain toxic affairs. For my own sake. We have to make such decisions. Making stern decisions is hard. But it is a must sometimes.
But there is a flip side of the coin. It is so painful to lose your friend. Just a prompt decision, a heated argument might lead to a big devastation. You might get upset later. It is impossible to revise what you did. But it is a good chance for you to re-examine yourself. Did I perform well? Wasn’t I good enough? Can I alter what I did? So far, I have played well!! I know I make mistakes. But do I need a rejoining? Am I well prepared for such? All is up to me.
“If I feel to avoid at the deep of my heart, so I do!” one of my friends said once. If it brings peace to mind. Yes, it will be great still! If she or he is a piece of home and you can find nowhere else, worth rejoining. So simple.
But it is good to keep in mind that we have little time on this planet. It does not always mean that we are to be with a toxic affair at all. You can be easily influenced by the gang around you. So, the rejoining is not a piece of cake every moment?
And the truth is we pick up friends sometimes in different stages in life. Souls from all walks of life from time to time. Some come and go. But I have a place in my big heart for all of them. I am happy to know and at least have known them. But I am always careful!! because I love my inner peace above all.
So after all, how do you feel about rejoining?
How do you feel?
