How are you doing inside your marriage? Could you share your relationship status inside this bond? Still, we all believe that marriage is a sacred concept. It is a great blend of sex, understanding, friendship, compromise, sacrifice, communication, and letting personal space.
Before marriage, we all are concerned about some fairy parts, including how to make sex great, affection, raising kids, etc, aren’t we? Most of our concerns are aimed at the pleasure that comes out as the fruit of a certain process. But when coming into the bond, we must experience the whole process well and truly before enjoying the “fruit.” By that time we come to know that to enjoy the “taste of a good understanding marriage” both have lot to contribute.
Love, Affection, plus good, kind communication
In my case, I found my true love in an arranged marriage in the 21st century (Lol). It has been two years now, and I claim that still I am truly thankful with the life we both have together. I am entitled to a two-year-old marriage yet, so I think that, this is the high point to revisiting “what I expect marriage have to be and what I am feeling now” The reason is, our talks as lovers are still fresh and not faded away by the time.
The power of kind communication is priceless. You can do a bulk of work when you feel that I am covered with love, affection, and kind words. Good, kind communication is an umbrella term that covers many. It is not an easy journey to tackle different thoughts and different behaviors at all. But at the end of the “you are responsible for doing anything that causes the least amount of resentment.” Words are much powerful than you think.
Sex
There are so many stages in female sexuality inside the marriage. It is a key part of the whole entity. Pleasure, sexuality, reproduction, and aging are all considered something to be discussed behind the curtain, even among the closest friends. The situation is worse in Asian culture, where I have my roots. Being honest with individual sex feelings is not a fault but a strong bridge to taste a good marriage. Better communication and expectation play a key role in powerful sex life. Honouring, acknowledging each others feelings and working for it is truly blessed.
Dealing with differences, sacrificing, and compromise
In my married life, the most interesting I found is our differences. There were some tasks I wanted to do in my lifetime but I had given them up. He is always good at the technical and technological parts, so he is playing a key role of the technical part of my work. Together we are playing a great match on our side business. I never thought that sharing different abilities would be wonderful till stepping into married life. I am always saying we are imperfect in every sense but the correct person One of my friends revealed to me how she and her husband laid out some ground rules for what their new dining rituals would look like.
When we have controversial ideas at one point, we both discuss them; sometimes, things end up as a total mess. But no matter the one who has the better vision, knowledge, and experience over the particular issue will get the first place. Whatever the case, good communication, and flexibility are the core.
How about you?
