In every relationship the language of love is the best way to introduce each other. Love is the fine fruit of the relationship but the way you express your “Love” may be different from one to another. It is not same all the time. Experience, trust, mutual understanding might change your love language with the time.
I have seen couples who are obsessed with sharing gifts in the early days of their relationship. “Our understanding changed everything, our relationship became more fulfilling and now my love language is all about quality time with deep conversation and acts of service,” said my friend once. What a transformation!
And some say “When my partner just does things without being asked it makes me loved. It is a feeling that he is caring and paying attention to what I am concerned about. I love it”
And things are different when it comes to siblings, parents, and friends. Whatever the mode, love is the base as always.
Love language and you
When you come to know your’s you can use that language to make self-care. Your love language becomes words of affirmation, so, you talk to yourself gently and kindly. When you love gift sharing, you gift yourself. You praise yourself. When you achieve something great you appreciate yourself with gifts. A great way of self motivating yourself. If your love language is “quality time” you have “me time” you put your best leg to have more meaningful “me time”.
When you love “act of service” as your love language, you are ready to learn something new. You are always worth acting and you need to treat everyone around you with an Act. Just lip service is not your way. When you act your love circle knows your love and affection towards them.
This practice is always relaxing “You are treating yourself lovely” so you automatically know how to love around you.
How about your love language, has it changed over time? Do you have something else as your “Love language”
