We talk about tons of things, share hundreds of ideas, fight over topics, and share the same blanket. Imperfect figures create the world’s most beautiful couples. My favorites will not be his all the time, and his favorites might not be mine all the time. I have madly fallen in love with the Outlander show or some other historical old-fashioned series. He is working on his courses. I am working backyard, he is dealing with the guitar or some books.
Not in well
Me- I am not well. I can’t wake up.
Husband- Are you ok? I will tackle the rest. take rest.
Take aside the ego. We have to cooperate. Compromising is another term for respect and love.
Quarrel with each other
Husband– Misunderstand, sorry
Me- yes, me too. sorry. It may take time to solve. Let’s not invite third parties for solutions.
Husband– Exactly
Understanding takes time.
Digging into each other is an interesting task and you might find hundreds of mismatches probably. Life has both roughened and softened all men and women. Different passions make them alive, the only possible thing is encourage them to do so if it is unharmed. So simple.
However, once my wise mother said,
“things matter only if you are unhappy inside the marriage, if it is at the edge of the cliff, if it is something unbearable. You are allowed to leave for the sake of your mental and physical health. A simple mismatch can do nothing. It’s a must in every marriage” wisest words about a marriage all the time. And at the same time I know, that holding a misery or watering a dead plant is just a waste of time. You are free to have fair, liberal choices.
But the art of making diverse interests work our relationship is truly charming. Just as simple as this, let us learn to enjoy what others enjoy. We are fully prepared to share and care all the time.
The marriage is full of surprises.LOL!! It is never too late to do something special for your loved ones. We may mismatch, but still, we can re-ignite our flame!!
Any thoughts, Anything about bearable mismatch? How are you going through?
