Most of the time both of us talk about our unity as a sweet family. The way how we fell in each other for the first time through a mini screen. The best choice I have ever made was through an Arranged marriage.
In arranged marriages other than the couple themselves, the bride and the groom are selectively selected by parents mostly. And especially in Sri Lanka, you are supposed to meet someone the suitable age, but if it does not work well, “Yes you are saying, I dealt with this so far, it is not easy, please find a match”.
In Asian traditions arranged marriages are a bit tough and the couple is not allowed free roam and discuss leisurely about their future, this is so formal and put into practice to the letter when parents are stuck with the traditions. But if you are more liberal with your needs and attitudes, the rigid meaning of traditional arranged marriage will not work for you, I say.
Most of the time indeed arranged marriages go with low expectations and might end up either way. If it is so pleasant you will have a great bonus. This is so common in both arranged marriages and love marriages. However, all Arranged marriages are not something forced marriages. Great matches come in the guise of Arranged marriage and they are playing well!! I am witnessing it!! I am saying if the choice is proper and good enough, you will never regret it at all. So better to be more liberal and authentic.
You might take time, nothing works overnight. All you need to do is keep rolling the ball.
How about you? Anyone with an Arranged marriage in the 21st century? Love to hear
